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Eliminating Bad Spending Habits

Eliminating bad spending habits…

Here are some tips that have helped me to reduce my habitual spending habits:

1) If you work outside the home, make sure you pack your own breakfast and lunch. Find jobs close to home and save on gas or carpool. If you drive an older car, the money you save on food and gas can go towards car repairs.
2) Purchase work attire with more natural fibers, this way you can eliminate dry cleaning all together and wash and iron your own clothes at home. You might not even need to iron if you get used to setting your washer and dryer on permanent press.
3) Give yourself a weekly allowance and remember that once it’s gone it’s gone. Pretend a certain amount is all you have left and you have no other money sources.
4) Eliminate expensive and unhealthy manicures and pedicures. Try doing your own at home or go without it all together. These can add up to some big chunks of money coming out of your monthly budget.
5) When you’re in need of services such as haircuts or dental work, you may consider Barber schools or student dental centers. I cut and or trim everyone’s hair at home. I’ve had loads of experience cutting hair, not to mention, my Father was a Barber, so I hung out at his shop a lot and learned from just watching him. My Brother is also a Barber and Hairstylist now, but he lives in another city, and it’s much more time and money saving for me to cut my own family’s hair.
6) Try not to use other ATM machines other than your own bank. Those service charges can add up and at times I’ve even forgotten to add the fees and have thrown my checkbook off balance.
7) Replace the shopping habit with healthier alternatives. If shopping used to be the way of fulfilling yourself or making yourself happy, try lower cost hobbies or forms of entertainment. Got to the library or out for a picnic. Get some new interests and hobbies that are free or can be started with very little investment. 8) If you don’t have the money to buy something, don’t buy it on credit. Wait till you have the cash, find some alternative replacement or try to do without it all together.
9) Be smart if you’re into the whole coupon thing. Don’t buy something you rarely use just because you found a coupon for it. I find shopping at discount food stores is actually cheaper than taking time out to cut coupons. If it works for you though, go for it.
10) Avoid eating out. It’s both expensive, habit forming and very unhealthy. It will make you lazy and you won’t be able to stay on budget. Your extra money can surely go to more than a dinner out or calling for delivery. Plan your weekly menu and shop list and try cooking meals for freezing on the weekend. Just bring meals down from the freezer the night before or morning of.
11) Use generic wherever possible. A more expensive item isn’t always better. I use  inexpensive fragrance oils and they always get me compliments, and because they’re a pure oil, they stay on me pretty much all day long.
12) Try buying in bulk for larger families. Again like coupons, be careful not to fall into the over buying trap simply because it’s on sale and there’s large amounts offered.
13) Check into switching to a credit union. They offer free checking and lots of other free and convenient services that large banks won’t.
14) Try snail mail or email instead of calling long distance. Purchase some inexpensive stationery and let it be an incentive to writing to family and friends. Beware of cheap phone packages that offer lower rates. Make sure the rates are continuous and not just for the first couple of months.
15) Insulate and weather strip areas of your home and keep your air ducts and filters clear of dust. Your air conditioning unit will work more efficiently, last longer and your electric bill will be a lot lower.
16) Never pay for shipping on your purchases unless you absolutely need it and can’t find it elsewhere. The worst is buying off television or on the internet with shipping added.
17) Avoid buying fire- wood in grocery stores. It’s most expensive there. Try getting your own or bartering with friends. Try finding folks that will deliver wood in bulk.
18) Stay at home when funds are running low or are gone all together. Avoid driving as much as possible. Do activities that will bring you a sense of peace and comfort so you won’t sit around worrying until funds become available again. Separate yourself and take time to rest, you’ll need your energy for errands and responsibilities that will soon come again.
19) Use up pantry food after fresh food is gone. Take it down to bare minimum if possible. I do #18 and #19 several times a year before getting paid the first week of every month. Some months have more spending than others. This month, for example, I have the yearly car registrations due. Always have some money on hand for life’s little emergencies.
20) I have replaced a lot of bad spending habits with reading. Books take me away and some of my best reads have been free or real cheap second hand buys. I’ve actually come across some first edition books signed by the author for free or very little cost.

Books are one of the best things you can leave your children. Reading is a very powerful tool that benefits every life young or old. Just relax and don’t worry yourself when funds are low. If you know money will eventually come in, worrying won’t solve anything. Keep a positive attitude and make the most of what you have. Be creative and figure out some ways to make a little money on the side. I often think of people that have absolutely nothing and it makes me take a good look at how much I really have and how much I really don’t need, especially to survive. Survival is basic and that’s where simplicity and frugality comes in. Keep it at need level and when you have a little extra, you’ll enjoy it and appreciate so much more. It’s great if your children can witness this as well.

Later,g


Saving Money at Home-part 2, Regifting

Saving money at home-part 2, Regifting

I want to make some things clear to you as I continue with this section. What I do on the side in order to save money is not always easy. There are always several factors I’ve needed to consider. With gas prices these days, I have to think about driving distance as well as the time it takes once I get to the location itself.

Sometimes I have to wait longer than expected. You should always make allowances for the unexpected. We humans run around this life of ours thinking we’re in total control and don’t realize it’s quite the opposite. I guess we wouldn’t be able to function and carry on knowing we’re not really in control…ok, I digress. I also don’t want you guys to think I drive around all day and try to fill my trunk with free food and free toiletries, etc… I always make sure that in every one of my endeavors and or transactions I try to show appreciation through small donations or kind gestures.

I keep a calendar hanging in my kitchen and mark down days for certain events, give-aways and weekly or monthly visits to places and people that already know me and expect me; like the clothes closet on Saturday mornings. You have to be quite organized and carry pen and paper at all times to write down any new events you might see or hear about along the way. Inviting friends to join in also makes the time spent more enjoyable.

The next thing I’d like to mention is to make sure your family and friends know and understand the way of life you have chosen. Not all family members and friends will understand. Don’t let this stand in your way, it then becomes their issue, not yours, if they choose to be judgmental. This is also a good way to find out who your real friends are!

You do have to have a pretty thick skin to follow through with this frugality way of living; just maintain your focus and center yourself each day knowing you’re reaching your goal to a much more liberating way of life. My family and friends have known for a while now and totally accept it. My way of life is a learning tool for them. They’ll sometimes call me up for some home-remedy for a sore throat or how to clean their tub naturally.

Some of them have actually become thriftier and happier along the way…like my sister in law. We just had a conversation the other day (after months of not speaking on the phone) about how much more liberating and happy she feels. She doesn’t feel as though life owns her. She made quite a few changes too, like removing her children from expensive private schools and finding good public schools. They even take the bus and she saves on gas. We can all do this with a little time and effort.

With the holiday season right around the corner, I’d like to touch on the subject of re-gifting. I rarely purchase new things for family and friends. For example, after I get to know the person’s likes and dislikes, I take time to put a little care package together and they always seem to really enjoy and appreciate it.

It’s so much more personal than going into a store and picking something up. It’s a lot more meaningful for all involved and they always end up with an assortment of gifts rather than just one or two items. It’s fun going through a package of stuff not knowing what comes next!

Recently, my son’s art teacher’s daughter had her 7th birthday. I went into my shoebox collection in the hall closet and decorated the boxes. I filled the boxes with lots of little things I know she’d like; books and movies we no longer used, a bracelet I never wear, a little purse I never use and some tops my daughter can no longer fit into.

I always make sure things are in good condition and clean. I also wrapped up a separate gift containing a beautiful knitted blanket I no longer use. I made a homemade card and wrapped it creatively using last year’s holiday wrapping paper and tied a pretty scarf around the outside as a bow.

The scarf itself was yet another gift. Another touch you might want to try is putting in a sheet of fabric softener inside your packages. When they open up the gift they immediately get a fresh nice smell and makes the gift even better. I also washed and sprayed the knitted blanket with some fabric refresher.

This way of gifting is very beneficial not only to the environment because you are recycling, keeps your surroundings clutter free and saves you loads of money and travel time and gas. You’re also making continuous room for more items you find for free or next to free.

Well, I’ll get back with you sometime later in the day. I want to talk to you about what I did when my husband lost his job several months ago as well as what I do to get help with my own children’s holiday presents. And now, I have to get ready to meet a friend at the clothes closet .I find some really great gifts there all year round which I save for holidays and birthdays. Don’t let the holidays stress you out. Liberate yourself and realize the real meaning of the season.
Later-g


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